Sandra Bullock is the only person who can make her happy
The Oscar-winning actress - who has been left devastated by allegations husband Jesse James cheated on her with at least four other women - admits it`s up to her to ensure she has a fulfilling life and nobody else.
She said: "I believe in creating your own happiness. If you`re miserable, you need to look at what you can do to fight to make your own life the one you want."
Speaking before the claims about the motorcycle enthusiast`s infidelity emerged, Sandra also revealed she is difficult to live with.
She said: "I`m not easy to deal with. I`m high-energy and need organisation and structure, so I`m controlling. I want everything orderly, and I need lists. I`m aware that I can be annoying. "Unconventional. Nutty. I do everything 100 per cent, even my stupidest missteps. But I try not to blame them on anyone else unless I fully know it was their fault - and then I have no problem pointing the finger."