Jessie J used to be "obsessed" with her best friend
The openly-bisexual singer - who is currently single - explained her family first asked about her sexuality when they noticed she appeared to have feelings for one of her female pals.
She said: "It wasn`t something I was bothered by, and as soon as my friends and family were like, `It`s cool`, I didn`t worry. I don`t care what people think - love is love.
"My mum and dad always knew. Dad sat me down and said, `Are you a lesbian?` because I was obsessed with my bestfriend."
The `Price Tag` hitmaker insists while she will be equally comfortable settling down with a guy or a girl eventually, no-one hits on her at the moment.
She added to more! magazine: "At the end of the day, I only live once and if I fall in love with a guy, I fall in love with a guy.
"Love can be a very powerful thing and I think I have to live my life how I want to live it. No one really hits on me at all. I think people are intimidated by me. I`ve always been that girl who people are a little scared of."