The 44-year-old actress - who has sons Brandon, 15, and Dylan, 13 - with ex-husband Tommy Lee - is pleased with the way she has raised her boys to be "little gentlemen" and thinks it is important to let them be independent.
She said:" They`re incredible. They`ve turned into cool little gentleman and little heartbreakers.
"I-m strict about some things, I really challenge and push them a lot. I`m glad God gave me two little boys because I love men and I think it`s really important for them to just be independent and strong boys."
Pamela - who has been married three times - insists she is not upset that she never had a daughter.
Asked if she was sad about not having a girl, she told new! magazine: "No, I love that I`m surrounded by men and I`m the queen bee."
The blonde beauty also admitted her sons refuse to confide in her about their relationships.
She said: "I did find out that one of my sons had a girlfriend and didn`t tell me about it. Tommy told me and I said, `Brandon, you didn`t tell me you had a girlfriend?` And he goes, `I`m not going to tell you!` "