Psychologists have learned that you need to know about the partner before wedding
The problem of divorces is constantly harassed the experts on psychology: sad statistics say that from year to year the percentage of divorce is increasing all over the world. Not so long ago professionals conducted a survey among divorced couples and find out the main causes of abandoning the family.
Australian expert in the field of family relationships, Dr. Karen Phillip, also decided to contribute to the preservation of the institution of marriage and made a list of questions to ask the partner to go to the registry office.
Specialists in psychology recommend to couples to ignore a conflict situation
It is extremely important to know the relation of the partner to "children's question": when he wants to have a baby and how he imagines his upbringing. Many couples get a divorce specifically because of a misunderstanding in this matter: someone in the family wants to have a baby, and others don't, and this undoubtedly lead to incidents.
In addition you should definitely learn to trust a future spouse. "Find the degree of trust is possible by means of intimate discussions: if partners can easily talk about the dilemmas in bed and to feel more at ease during sex, they can think about marriage," quoted Karen Phillip Daily Mail.
Learn to talk about problems in bed
In addition, modern couple, taking into account the opinion of an expert, must exchange passwords from accounts in social networks. This is considered an important sign of trust and openness in relationships.
"And if you're already married, recommends psychotherapist - Speak to each other: "I love you". I have been married for 15 years, but to this day every day before bedtime spouse say these words. Many couples forget this and turn your own life into domestics, but this is wrong: these words help us to remember the fragile feeling and care for her family".
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