How to improve your marriage - reliable strategy
How many years of marriage was not you behind - 1, or 20 - there are several methods to return honeymoon and incredible feeling of love and romance, in which you lived immediately after the wedding.
How to achieve this? It is not very difficult!
1. Remember why you got married.
Currently forget love, habit, and so forth, He is faithful? With him is like a stone wall? You wanted this particular representative of strong sex was the father of your children? Perhaps, on the contrary - the marriage was for you just try to put yourself in the framework of universally recognized norms and be "no worse than others"? In other words, just think within yourself well!
2. To answer the question: is it comfortable to you in marriage?
Not next to the representative of the stronger sex, and specifically IN MARRIAGE to him, in the state of home life. For the following reasons, if the answer is no, then you inhibit own discomfort and because of this, become irritable, frustrated by the wife, and sometimes even I can't answer yourself, what do you want from life.
3. Find out your spouse, how important is it for marriage.
In fact, ask the previous question wife. The marriage must have not less important, than for you. If not, this may explain his irritability, and your quarrels, so as to destroy its own subconscious desire and Unwillingness extremely dangerous.
4. Renounce pressure and ultimatums.
Neither is never exposed. If you want to achieve something better to talk about it honestly, without manipulation, proving only own ideas, feelings and experience. Beloved, you have to realize that you love him the way he is and accept with all its advantages and imperfections - and only after that he will make a step to meet your needs and is ready to go on the compromise.
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